Once upon a time, a mysterious someone walked into a girl's life. After apologising for their clumsiness, they discovered a shared love for the important things - like trawling YouTube for cat videos. The question was popped, and the reply was a big whopping YES! It's a familiar tale, but what the storybooks don't reveal are the headaches and heartaches that usually ensue. So for all the lovers out there - the stressers, the don't-know-where-to-starters, or the-I'm-going-to-vomit-if-I-read-another-blog-about-DIY-mason-jar-ers - here are 60 secrets to help you get organised and stay sane on the way to getting hitched. They are the nuggets of wisdom I've learnt along the way ... or wish I'd been told before we got started.